|
I first used the
following story (author unknown) in a Thought For The Day message
several years ago, and have since used it in a funeral service. It
remains one of my readers' all-time favorites. I hope you enjoy
seeing it again.
The sound of Martha's voice on the other end of the telephone always
brought a smile to Brother Jim's face. She was not only one of the
oldest members of the congregation, but one of the most faithful.
Aunt Martie, as all of the children called her, just seemed to ooze
faith, hope, and love wherever she went. This time, however, there
seemed to be an unusual tone to her words. "Preacher, could you stop by
this afternoon? I need to talk with you." "Of course, I'll be
there around three. Is that ok?"
It didn't take long for Jim to discover the reason for what he had only
sensed in her voice before. As they sat facing each other in the quiet
of her small living room. Martha shared the news that her doctor had
just discovered a previously undetected tumor. "He says I probably have
six months to live". Martha's words were naturally serious, yet there
was a definite calm about her. "I'm so sorry to...." but before Jim
could finish, Martha interrupted. "Don't be. The Lord has been good. I
have lived a long life. I'm ready to go. You know that." "I know," Jim
whispered with a reassuring nod.
"But I do want to talk with you about my funeral. I have been thinking
about it, and there are things that I know I want." The two talked
quietly for a long time. They talked about Martha's favorite hymns, the
passages of Scripture that had meant so much to her through the years,
and the many memories they shared from the five years Jim had been with
Central Church.
When it seemed that they had covered just about everything, Aunt Martie
paused, looked up at Jim with a twinkle in her eye, and then added, "One
more thing, preacher. When they bury me, I want my old Bible in one hand
and a fork in the other". "A fork?" Jim was sure he had heard
everything, but this caught him by surprise. "Why do you want to be
buried with a fork?"
"I have been thinking about all of the church dinners and banquets that
I attended through the years," she explained, "I couldn't begin to count
them all. But one thing sticks in my mind -- At those really nice
get-togethers, when the meal was almost finished, a server or maybe the
hostess would come by to collect the dirty dishes. I can hear the
words now. Sometimes, at the best ones, somebody would lean over
my shoulder and whisper, 'You can keep your fork.' And do you know
what that meant? Dessert was coming! "It didn't mean a cup of Jell-O or
pudding or even a dish of ice cream. You don't need a fork for that.
It meant the good stuff, like chocolate cake or cherry pie! When they
told me I could keep my fork, I knew the best was yet to come!
"That's exactly what I want people to talk about at my funeral.
Oh, they can talk about all the good times we had together. That would
be nice. But when they walk by my casket and look at my pretty blue
dress, I want them to turn to one another and say, 'Why the fork'?
That's what I want you to say, I want you to tell them, that I kept my
fork because the best is yet to come!"
Truly, for a
child of God,
the best is yet to come.
"Blessed be the God and Father
of our Lord Jesus Christ, who
according to His abundant mercy
has begotten us again to a living hope
through the resurrection of Jesus Christ
from the dead,
to an inheritance incorruptible and undefiled
and that does not fade away,
reserved in heaven for you."
(I Peter 1:3-4)

In Jesus'
name, Amen.

 

This weeks
thought and comments comes from
Thought-for-the-day

a daily
devotional which you can
receive daily online by subscribing at:
join-thought-for-the-day@xc.org
It is created by
Alan Smith,
Boone Church of Christ,
Boone, NC

|